Beth Sarim, I never thought of fitness centers as being social centers, or as an effective way to make new friends. Please tell me more about that. Maybe I should try that.
Regarding your comment of "Just do everything opposite the Borg preaches" that could be understood in a very different way than you likely mean it. For example, it could mean the following.
- Smoke cigars, cigarettes, marijuana, and elicit drugs. Get drunk often from drinking alcohol. Chew tobacco. Inject yourself with crack cocaine. Get high - as often as possible. Buy the elicit drugs illegally - from street vendors.
- Engage in promiscuous sex, with multiple partners (without protection), and start doing it before age 15 - even as soon as you enter puberty. Become a prostitute and/or a porn star.
- Engage in homosexual (whether gay or lesbian) sex, even become a bisexual.
- Join a youth gang (or become a gangster). Rob stores. Rob banks. Shoot people with guns. Bully people. Harass people.
- Practice the occult; get heavily involved with spiritism. Worship Satan the Devil.
- Drop out of high school. Don't work to get good grades in school. Don't even try to learn at school.
- Deliberately harm your own body.
- Engage in arson. Heavily pollute the environment. Torture animals, including people's pets.
- Etc.